About Me

Welcome to my blog and thank you for taking the time to read my story and share in my sorrow. Writing here has helped me feel less alone and has allowed me to process a lot of bottled up feelings.

My Story
I've lost my first child due to cervix incompetence on October 22, 2013. Here's my story:
The Scariest, Happiest, Saddest Day of our Lives

Helping Someone Else
If you're visiting this blog because someone you know has lost their baby, please read my blog post entitled "What to Say to Someone Who Has Lost a Baby". Also, if you're the one who lost your child, you can refer your friends and family to this post and help them help you.

If you want to try to understand what your loved one is going through, take a look at some of these videos.

Songs and Quotes
As I deal with my grief, I've come across a couple of songs and  quotes that somehow make me feel better. I listed the songs in the Music tab above. 


6 comments:

  1. I just saw a link to your blog on Baby Center and had to comment. I am so, so sorry about your beautiful little Leo. Sending prayers and hugs from Massachusetts.

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  2. I'm new to your blog and I've read through the past few months of posts so far. I just wanted to say, I know that it doesn't change what has happened, but I'm so sorry. I always said I never knew how I would cope if I lost a child, but unfortunately this is something that you and I live with every day, the loss of our babies. Thank you for sharing your story and I'll be thinking of you.

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    1. Hi Shelby. Thanks for your message. I read some of your blog posts...I'm so sorry for all your miscarriages. Our stories are slightly different, but I know our pain is similar. I hope we both find strength to carry on and that we're one day, able to enjoy the joys of motherhood. xxx

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  3. Hello. I am so sorry for your loss. I lost our precious Faith Melody on April 15, 2014, due to IC as well at 24 weeks & 2 days. Please let me know what you think of my blog www.myfaithmelody.blogspot.com

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    1. I'm also trying to follow your blog, but I do not see where I need to go to do this...

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